tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post304368556087759903..comments2023-05-06T05:53:20.794-07:00Comments on DietSodaDiva.com: Fat or RossRosiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06679080153484616582noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-15505883425590147922009-07-01T07:13:01.441-07:002009-07-01T07:13:01.441-07:00Thank you Di.Thank you Di.Rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06679080153484616582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-52682169460636639922009-07-01T03:13:47.640-07:002009-07-01T03:13:47.640-07:00All I can say is hugs and support to you in this. ...All I can say is hugs and support to you in this. People are nothing if not complicated, and relationships are the most complicated form of that complication. Hang in there and remember that you are a spirit simply going through a human experience, and that spirit is beautiful, perfect and lovable no matter what the packaging is or how others perceive that packageDihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04694756762570280051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-36361614083872880072009-06-30T14:15:45.790-07:002009-06-30T14:15:45.790-07:00I can't completely be mad at him because I kno...I can't completely be mad at him because I know he tried... I just didn't think he would end the relationship over it. I know love should be unconditional but that's one condition that he doesn't want to budge on.<br /><br />I'm following Weight Watchers and am trying to get my points but just can't. My throat feels tight, it's hard to even get my water in but I have done that. Today I'm working on just getting in more points that I did yesterday... every five minutes I have a couple of grapes or take a bite of fruit. <br /><br />Thank you for your words, I really appreciate it.Rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06679080153484616582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-49248723295557940402009-06-30T13:21:24.003-07:002009-06-30T13:21:24.003-07:00part of me got really mad reading your post.. Whil...part of me got really mad reading your post.. While I can appreciate his feelings.. Someone that loves you.. loves you not by the sum of your pounds but by the size of your heart and the person you are .. the character that you possess.. having weight issues is not a character flaw.. its a problem.. and it can be resolved but it is going to be something you must contend with for the rest of your life.. there are no quick fixes .. no easy diets.. Eating healthy and exercise is the only way to lose and maintain weight loss..If you are following WW then get your points in.. or whatever program you are using as a guide for the new you .. do not skimp on what you are suppose to eat.. regardless of how you feel.. He gave you a dose of real life... though.. he threw trauma into your weight loss .. and its up to you to handle it.. Do not be hard your self.. you are working and learning how to change habits.. it takes time.. have faith in yourself .. thats the most important thing.. and do this for you.. not for him.. don't prove anything to him.. Prove to yourself that you can do this.. for in the long run .. when all is said and done.. you are all that matters in this adventure... because with out you.. there is no adventure.. there is no future..Honib1https://www.blogger.com/profile/15646622694939641707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-43644330097617837362009-06-30T11:02:32.788-07:002009-06-30T11:02:32.788-07:00Thank you Andrea. It is a horrible thing, but I so...Thank you Andrea. It is a horrible thing, but I sort of understand his point... years ago when I lost 25 pounds on WW and started dating someone who wasn't watching his diet I gained weight and before I gained the full 25 back I stopped seeing him partially for that reason. <br /><br />We're going to talk today and see what happens, but regardless it's time that I stop letting my fat get in the way of things...Rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06679080153484616582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-47875786926442615752009-06-30T10:41:28.914-07:002009-06-30T10:41:28.914-07:00That's really horrible. I'm really sorry t...That's really horrible. I'm really sorry to hear that this happened. I hope you guys can work it out, but either way, I hope you don't let his negativity about your progress drag you down. You ARE making changes and learning as you go and that's really the most important thing. <br /><br />Take care of yourself, lady!Andyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03153590782817733949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-25343883969554370702009-06-30T10:07:21.135-07:002009-06-30T10:07:21.135-07:00SARAH: He knows I have but since he's made a l...SARAH: He knows I have but since he's made a lifestyle change he wants me to do it also not just for him but for myself... I hope we do too... Thank you for your support.<br /><br />KAREN: I'm going to try to get more points in today... I haven't had anything yet, but as soon as I'm done here I'm going to have a smoothie and add yogurt to up the points. Thank you so much for your support.Rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06679080153484616582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-78103541150195516512009-06-30T09:49:03.175-07:002009-06-30T09:49:03.175-07:00I'm so sorry, Rosie! I know that it's not ...I'm so sorry, Rosie! I know that it's not easy, but you've got to try & stay on track & get those points in! I have a tendency to be a stress non-eater and it's just as bad for us as being stress eaters. Hang in there sweetie!karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03140525208481352659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20803640.post-42721172018103442562009-06-30T09:11:52.442-07:002009-06-30T09:11:52.442-07:00I'm really sorry to hear about your boyfriend ...I'm really sorry to hear about your boyfriend breaking up with you. I don't think it's fair that he did this though. I know that you love him and you don't think of it like that and you are trying to see things from his point of view. You have been trying to get healthier and he must know this. I hope you 2 can work it out. *hugs*sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15196679738235337809noreply@blogger.com